I've since realized that sure, I don't like hurting people, but what's really happening is that I don't like guilt and anxiety and conflict, so I ignore or avoid the "problem" to gain the illusion that "it's" they've gone away And the reality is that they might go away, but they do so wondering what the heck just happened and sometimes send a string of angry text messages. I've been on the receiving end of a casual relationship ending over text message, Facebook Chat, the "phase-out," and the "I'm gonna drink few glasses of wine while you tell me you're seeing someone more seriously now and we can no longer talk. A single emoji takes less effort than a fart. We say we're busy forever. Don't keep sleeping with them if you know they want more. This is better than a phase out.
That's why you have to let him know you're not interested in moving forward romantically, so he can put his eggs in a more receptive basket.
He broke up with me for a month, sexted my ex best friend, and then I took him back do not recommend. Hurting someone sucks, and so does getting hurt. The formula for this text is simple and can be applied to just about any dating scenario. His response arrived shortly: I was obviously wasting my time. Click to comment. Photo by Josh Applegate on Unsplash.