He is my man. It is hard. First of all, the statement is not true. I agree with what Evan and others have said — if your physical response to him is neutral, then his abilities in bed and quality of character may change how you view him sexually in a positive way. You might be drawn to their:
Would you still be into this chap?
Is It OK To Date Someone You're Not Attracted To?
The truth is, there are endless people in the world with whom you could have a wonderful relationship. Talk your favorite musicians to see if you have any in common. May you always enjoy the happiness that you both deserve. Try another answer Compatibility is important but so is attraction.